Jesus Is Coming What Do I Want To Be Open To? by Kathy Escobar
This morning’s post in the series Jesus is Coming What Do I Expect? comes from Kathy Escobar co-pastor at The Refuge and author of Down We Go. It was first posted on her blog as Present, Humble Vulnerable.
“he has filled the hungry with good things” – mary’s song, luke 1:53
until 5 years ago i never celebrated the season of advent and the weeks leading up to christmas. honoring the church calendar was just not something i was taught, but over the past few years i have really come to appreciate the beauty & intention that comes from it. at the same time, i am not crazy over the typical definition of “expectation”, probably because it can be such a loaded word when it comes to some christian things. it can sometimes feel a little bit too demanding for me on one end or setting myself up for disappointment on another. it’s tricky for me to say “this advent season i expect….” a phrase that helps me with this is to substitute the word “expecting” with “being open to”.
so, if i were re-framing this entire phrase, it would be: Jesus is coming: what do i want to be open to?
when i am open, i am present. i am not thinking about the next thing i need to do but rather am present in the moment i’m currently in. i have room to listen, notice, experience.
when i am open, i am humble. i do not have everything all figured out. i am not closed off & hardened. my heart is soft & tender to God and other people.
when i am open, i am vulnerable. i am willing to feel, the good things & the bad, to let in the beauty & the ugly and somehow trust that God is at work in it all.
it is quite clear to me that none of these things are my first reflexes!
when i think of the christmas story & the events leading up to the birth of Jesus, mary’s “openness” comes to mind. she embodied being present, humble, and vulnerable. i feel fairly positive she had to be terrified in every imaginable way. i do not think the cleaned-up stories we read about mary are what it really looked or felt like for her in the moment. she was human and experienced fear & shame & doubt & confusion & trust & hope & joy just like we do. there are many different ways the story could have unfolded, but she chose the path of openness. of staying present, humble, and vulnerable in the midst of great travail.
like his earthly mother, Jesus embodied these three qualities, too–presence, humility, and vulnerability. all three are easy to talk about but tricky to live out. the pull toward busyness & thinking 10 steps ahead, self-centeredness, hardening and protecting our hearts & time, and a host of other distractions is really strong.
so what i am i trying to be open–present, humble, and vulnerable–to this advent season?
i want to be open to be awed by the little & beautiful things that i intersect with over the next few weeks that i might count as ordinary. i want to be open to God’s story being told in my life & the life of my friends. i want to be open to see slivers of light in the darkness. i want to be open to feel the ground underneath my feet instead of moving so fast. i want to be open to laughter and joy in the midst of carrying my friends’ real burdens & pain. i want to be open to experiencing peace & a sense of gentle strength in midst of the craziness of these busy & fast next few weeks. i want to be open to being patient & waiting instead of being impatient & demanding. i want to be open to God’s hope.
i know that this is a season of waiting for Jesus to “come” but it also helps me to remember Jesus is already “here.” working, challenging, healing, illuminating, strengthening, comforting, encouraging, revealing his story to us in our real lives, offering hope.
this advent season, God help me be open–to be present, humble, vulnerable .